"One must still have chaos in oneself to be able to give birth to a dancing star (...) What is love? What is creation? What is longing? What is a star?"
--from Nietzsche's Thus spoke Zarathustra--
Walking out of chaos implies to previously have been inside of it, like in a dark room, you walk in and outside of it. Life is unpredictable. People are unpredictable. Accept this condition, let go of trying to force order and perfection to an imperfect life full of uncertainty. Stop trying hard to change something you cannot change. You can’t control chaos. You can only change yourself... your thoughts and your actions. Take action and embrace your inner chaos, self-discovery happens when in confusion, clutter and consistent complexity.